2016 I must admit has been an year of
great achievement and I am proud of myself for the same.I thank god for
allowing me to see it all from day 1 to day366.
However,my
womanhood has been through challenges that am yet to figure out how to place it
in the most positive way because it has been truly a hell of a time.I therefore
chose to start a journey to making things right as a woman of substance.
I have been making steps to completely walk
over it and I wish to walk with you who may be ahead of me or right behind me
in this journey.I learnt to be confident in myself and felt good about it.i
surely think this was the first step I made.
I wish every
woman would notice this.Confidence is
sexy.Confidence is the most attractive quality a woman can possess.It shows
how you feel about yourself.Its not funny I once overheard someone so close to
me describe his lady-friend.”huyo dame
alikua confident sana the first day nlimuona.Alinikill,,she was so comfortable
around us like ametujua for years.”That piece definitely crashed my heart
and I thought she must be the hype sanguine personality with the
negative slang ‘kiherehere’.The sad part of the story is,,,the guy liked her
and I know his type.It was a wake up call for me commemorating how shy and
cowardice I must have been the first day I met him-aside with that.
I chose to build my confidence. I read pieces
and worked on them.To be confident,you have to;
·
Dress well-This will not mean you need lots of
money to build confidence.It doesn’t work that way.Choose the right clothing
for your bodyshape.Let it be clean and drySomething simple and classy.Do this
everyday,feel good in what you are dressed in.Feel good about yourself.
·
Groom yourself-Make your hair neat,trim your
nails,do your makeup right,shape your eyebrows perfectly wax unnecessary
hair…ladies,its these little things.Again,do this everyday.
·
Fantasize about yourself image-,Every morning,think about that lady
you want the world to see.Photoshop your image with that dream lady you wish to
be.Think about her,talk like her,walk like her,act like her completely.It will
not take a long while before you realize you really are her.
·
Smile-This perfectly works for me I cannot
deny.I feel that smiling is the prettiest thing you can wear.Your smile will
give you a positive countenance that will make people feel comfortable around
you.It makes you look confident in their eyes.
·
Set small goals and achieve them.Nothing feels better to a woman of
substance than success.Allow yourself to feel successful on your own.Have
proper dayplans and avoid procrastination.If you’re the lazy type,plan to read
five chapters of your book in a day and by the end of it,thank me for how
improved you will be feeling about your self-confidence.
With the few first steps to building your confidence,other
virtues that complete the confidence project will naturally fall in to
place.You will find yourself being kind and generous to people,being
provocatively active,your postures will be perfect,you will eventually change
small habits among others.
Self-confidence enables you to manage your fears,tackle lifes
challenges with more certainity and maintain a positive mental attitude.It
brings happiness,increased performance,social ease and good health status.
Well,confidence is contagious and so is lack of
confidence.Choose your company wisely.
NJERI
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